Sandeep weds Pushpa

7th March. At last the day has come had come for which everyone was waiting for. So it started with groom taking bath. Here while taking bath the first mug if water after use is collected in a small pot and sent to brides place. That water is sprinkled on the bride after which she can take bath.
So first the groom(my cousin)took bath and his water was sent to brides place. Then he got ready in suit,boot,tie. And then a group of women went along with him to a small temple of Ma Durga where a short pooja took place and from there he sat in a car and went to wedding place followed by all others. As soon as he reached his to be mother-in-law did aarti and from there he goes directly to the stage where jaymala ritual will take place. There refreshments were served to everyone. Later brides(Pushpa bhabhi) came and the rasam of jaymal was done after that from boys as well girls side everyone went on the stage to give blessing to the couple.
After which bride goes and Wear yellow saree for wedding. The groom is seated in the aangan where was to take place. Then bride comes and all rasam stated....Kanyadan, phere, putting mangalsutar,sindhur etc. The wedding started at 2:30 and got over at 5:30am. Finally it was the time for bidai where the girl goes to her sasural. When she reached her mother-in-law..my fui did aarti and where the maad was fixed  the last rasam was done where the kangan tied was removed from both groom and bride hand and in one diya there was two batti which was  made one by the couple.

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